Tag: joy

  • What Jesus Wants

    I love what the New Living Translation does with this verse:

    He gave his life to free us from every kind of sin, to cleanse us, and to make us his very own people, totally committed to doing good deeds.

    (Titus 2:14, emphasis mine)

    He wants us free from every kind of sin and ‘want’ is too weak a word. He died to free us from every kind of sin.

    And the thing is: sin sucks.

    We get it wrong when we think of sin as all-the-bright-shiny-things-that-I-really-want-but-God-won’t-let-me-have. It is those things but only for a moment – the moment just before we get them. Ultimately, and far more importantly, sin is all the things that keep us miserable.

    Those relational problems you hate? Their roots, deep down in the dirt somewhere, are sin. I know this because love doesn’t damage relationships (though it might end a damaging relationship); so whatever is causing the hurt comes from something other than love. And in a relationship: where love stops, sin begins. There is actually nothing in the middle.

    That fear? Oh, this is a big one for me – fear is sin. Did you know that? Fear opposes faith. It has no place in God’s kingdom. Have you ever thought to repent from fear?

    Addictions, obsessions, meanness, impatience, doubt, anxiety; even boredom is a kind of sin.

    Loneliness too, can be; since it can deny the love and presence of God.

    Guilt itself – the kind that doesn’t lead to forgiveness, the kind that acts as if Christ’s death isn’t enough – that sort of debilitating guilt is sin.

    And this is good news.

    It’s great news, because it means that Jesus hates these things as much as we do – more. He died to free us from all of it – every kind – to free us and to cleanse us. He wants it gone. And there’s more.

    He wants us for Himself. All. His. Very. Own.

    “Totally committed to doing good deeds.”

    The only way I will ever be totally that, is if I am totally filled with the Spirit of Jesus and then – oh, then! – I will also be full of all kinds of good things, things like love and joy and peace. No wonder they will spill out in good deeds.

    He wants this for us.

    He let Himself be tortured and killed so we could have this.

    Yes but – I can hear your argument – yes but, still here I am, not full of love, joy and peace; not free of every kind of sin. How do I make sense of all this in light of the reality of my experience?

    See, that’s the wrong question. The question should be: how do I make sense of my experience in light of the reality of these things?

    That one is an excellent question.

    I can’t answer it for you.

    But keep asking, because it will bring you where you need to go.

    In fact, ask Him.

     

     

     

  • Why joy matters

    It’s okay if you’re not joyful. There are lots of good reasons to be unhappy; in fact, sadness is a reasonable response to life in this world. How else can a thinking person feel when faced with the madness?

    And sometimes, sadness is the result of chemistry gone wrong in our brains.

    But sad is not God’s ultimate plan for you and me.

    Joy is a theme that pulses through the whole bible, especially the New Testament. Jesus wants his disciples to be as joyful as he is, and his joy was strong enough to triumph over the cross. We are even commanded to ‘be joyful’ – as though it is a choice we can make.

    God wants us glad.

    Joy is both a reasonable response to God and a powerful force for Him in this world. I look to God and am filled with joy, then – when I turn that joy outward – others can see God.

    It is not a by-product of the right circumstances.

    Years ago I was worried about my daughter and at the same time reading Mike Mason’s book, “Champagne for the Soul”, where he chronicles his 90 day experiment in joy. I remember a particular moment where I felt that God was inviting me to open up and receive His joy.

    I didn’t want to.

    You see, I wanted Him to do something for my daughter and unless and until He did, I didn’t really want to be happy. I felt that to be happy while she struggled would be wrong. Worse, it would show God that I was okay with the way He was handling the situation, which I wasn’t. To accept His joy while being mad at Him felt like a kind of capitulation, like giving Him permission.

    My sadness was a form of protest and I wasn’t ready to surrender.

    Joy is a by-product of surrender.

    Joy comes when I see God for what He is: all good, all strong, all smart, and forever and ever on our side – no matter how much evidence there may seem to be to the contrary. It comes when I plant myself in God’s word and say, “This is truer than everything I see, everything I feel, and everything I have experienced so far.” And when joy comes, it opens my heart and floods it with His love.

    When I look at a situation I don’t like and say, “God has this. Thank you, God, for what you are doing here and how much I’m going to love it, one day.” – joy comes.

    Joy matters because it is both the proof of God’s activity in my life, and the power of it.

    So, it’s okay to be sad, because that is honest and reasonable.

    But get ready to be glad.